✍ Editor's Note
"Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers." - Voltaire
Asking questions is the most powerful tools you can use in many facets of life. Why not with the most important person in your life and the most important decision you will ever make?
Reflecting on 2025: Questions to Ask
🤟 Relationship Questions
What was our favorite memory or moment we shared in 2025?
In what ways did we feel most connected as a couple this year?
Were there times we felt distant or disconnected? What contributed to that?
How well did we support each other through challenges?
What’s one thing I appreciate most about my partner from this year?
😇 Personal Questions
What personal goals did each of us achieve in 2025?
Did we try new things together (travel, hobbies, adventures)? What stood out?
How did we handle stress or unexpected events as a team?
What lessons did we learn about ourselves or our relationship?
🤑 Financial Questions
What were our biggest financial wins in 2025 (e.g., paying off debt, saving milestones)?
Were there any money-related stresses or arguments? What triggered them?
How aligned were we on spending, saving, and financial decisions?
Did we stick to our budget or financial plan? Where did we succeed or fall short?
What hidden spending or financial surprises came up this year?
Planning for 2026: Questions to Discuss Together
🥂 Relationship & Fun Questions
What do we want our relationship to feel like in 2026?
How can we prioritize more quality time or romance (date nights, trips)?
What new experiences or adventures do we want to share?
How can we better support each other's personal dreams?
☺ Personal and Shared Goals
What individual goals do each of us have for 2026 (health, career, hobbies)?
What shared goals excite us (home improvements, family planning, travel)?
How can we hold each other accountable in a loving way?
💰 Finances: Building a Stronger Foundation
What are our top financial goals for 2026 (e.g., emergency fund, debt payoff, investments, big purchases)?
How much do we want to save each month, and where should it go?
What changes can we make to our budget or spending habits?
Do we need to adjust how we handle money (joint accounts, allowances, regular check-ins)?
What potential financial risks should we prepare for?
🪟 Overall
If 2026 could be our best year yet, what would make it so?
What one word or theme do we want to define our year (e.g., adventure, stability, growth)?
We are wishing you a fun filled, productive 2026!
Till next time,
The Social Post